Maryam Kaisi
Published on 17 April 2025 | 10:25 GM+2
Quarter to 30
Tick tock, tick tock! The clock is moving, and it’s time to start making real adult decisions. The types of invitations you receive speak volumes—no longer just birthdays and hangouts, but weddings, baby showers, career milestones, and farewell parties. You may find yourself wondering:
Is time moving too fast? Am I falling behind?
The answer is simple: No. You’re just stepping into adulthood.
Adulting: A Bittersweet Milestone
Growing up is a rewarding journey, especially when you’re seeing progress toward your goals. But it can also feel discouraging if you haven’t checked off as many boxes as you expected by your mid-to-late 20s. In todays highlight-driven world, it’s easy to feel like you’re behind.
So, when is the right time to lay the foundation for adulthood? Ideally, experts suggest that developing strong habits during your teenage years gives you a head start. But if you’re already in your 20s—or beyond—don’t panic. There's still plenty of time to take control of your future.
1. Start Saving and Investing Early
Your future wealth starts with today’s choices.
Unless you're backed by a trust fund, your late 20s are for building—not blowing—your finances. Now’s the time to practice discipline, learn from your money mistakes, and start saving—even if it’s just a little. Explore investments that grow over time, because while retirement may seem far off, compound growth waits for no one. The earlier you begin, the stronger your financial foundation becomes.
2. Pursue That Dream—No More Waiting
That dream you keep postponing? It’s still waiting on you.
Whether it’s writing that book, buying a home, or traveling the world, this is your sign to start. The perfect moment may never come, but progress doesn’t require perfection. What small step can you take before this year ends to move closer to your goal? You might be one decision away from your breakthrough. Start where you are. Begin now.
3. Stop Trying to Please Everyone
You don’t owe everyone access to your peace.
One of the most liberating truths you’ll discover in your late 20s is that it’s not your job to please everyone. This season is about choosing you—your growth, your healing, your joy. Be intentional with your circle. Let go of relationships that feel heavy, draining, or one-sided. Whether romantic, familial, or platonic, anything that disturbs your inner peace has no place in this chapter. Surround yourself with people who uplift, not weigh you down.p>
4. Avoid the Comparison Trap
Social media can often amplify feelings of inadequacy, as people tend to share only the highlights of their lives. Keep in mind that what you see online isn’t always the full picture, and focusing on your own path will serve you better in the long run.
5. Embrace Mistakes as Lessons
Mistakes are inevitable, but they’re also valuable learning experiences. Your 20s are a time for trial and error, and every misstep teaches you something new. Instead of fearing failure, reflect on your decisions, adjust accordingly, and keep moving forward. Growth comes from learning, adapting, and striving for self-improvement.
Final thoughts
Anyway, time keeps ticking. Tick tock, tick tock! Now, go get ready for that wedding.or you can simply share how best one can prepare for adulthood based on your experience.
